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Beyond Marie Kondo: Making Space for Both Grief and Joy

Decluttering isn’t always about joy—it’s about creating space for both healing and hope.

When life changes—through loss, divorce, or big transitions—our belongings can hold so much emotion. Some things we keep with love, others we let go of with gratitude. The trick is knowing which is which.

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When Does a Thing Become a Memory?

As women transition through significant life changes, they often confront the emotional weight of physical possessions that embody their past experiences. Items like baby blankets or family heirlooms can blur the line between memories and mere objects. Each individual’s relationship with these items is unique, with some finding comfort in keeping them, while others feel burdened. The key is to reevaluate what memories mean and, if necessary, let go of what no longer serves us, focusing instead on the essence of cherished moments.